Society

Prodigal:  I thought we would find the ladder in here.  Now we don’t have one.

Me:  Well, this is as welcome as a dust storm on a trial drive.

Prodigal:  What do we do now?

Me:  Lets call the neighbors and see if they can help.

 

This is from Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

 

A Christian society is not going to arrive until most of us really want it:  and we are not going to want it until we become fully Christian.  I may repeat “Do as you would be done by” till I am black in the face, but I cannot really carry it out till I love my neighbor as myself:  and I cannot learn to love my neighbor as myself till I learn to love God:  and I cannot learn to love God except by learning to obey Him.  

 

God my wants are not important right now. I must focus on my neighbor.  I must focus on loving even if it means I have to suffer.

 

Isaiah 60:1

Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

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Avoid Choice

Prodigal:  I love your smile Brady!

Me:  Me too!

Prodigal:  His smile is wider than the rind of a blue-ribbon watermelon.

Me:  I agree

This is from the book Bold Love by Dr. Dan B. Allender & Dr. Tremper Longman III

Some of us approach life with overt commitment to avoid choice (passivity) or perfect choice (perfectionism) so that the consequences of choice will not fall on our shoulders.  Others make irresponsible choices (impulsion) or delay them (procrastination) so that excuses can be readily offered.  Some make aggressive choices (intimidation) to keep others from being able to exert their freedom to choose.  All of these approaches hate the burden of choice and attempt to side step the responsiblity to deal with the consequences of choice.

Lord we think some times we don’t have to make the choice.  The Lord keeps calling.  He wants us to make the right choice with His wisdom.  We do not have to fear in that choice and we do not have to worry.  The Lord has been watching it all.  He has loved you through it all.  Now step toward the choice and watch the Lord work.

And God called the firmament Heaven.  And the evening and the morning were the second day.

Genesis 1:8

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

For the Birds

 

Me:  I like your bird friend!

Prodigal:  Yes, he would like to hear a story.

Me:  This one is for the birds.

 

This is from Chicken Soup for the Country Soul

 

While I was standing at the kitchen window, five-year old Spencer, my oldest son, ran into the house screaming, “We need a doctor out here!  We need a doctor!  Hurry, Mom!!”

“What’s wrong?”  I asked.

Spencer anxiously told me he had found a dead bird that needed a doctor.

Dutifully, I grabbed a small plastic bag from the pantry and took Spencer’s hand–after all, that’s the sort of thing mother’s do!  While my son led me out the door and toward the bird, I explained that if the creature was indeed dead, a doctor could not help.  When we arrived at the accident scene, it was obvious that the baby bird was dead.  Spencer and I could see the nest high up in the tree.  My son and I discussed the probable age of the baby bird, its inability to fly well, and exactly how the fall had caused its death.

“I bet his mommy and daddy really miss him,”  Spencer observed.  I reached for my boy’s hand and tried to ease his sadness by saying I was sure they did, but that they would be okay because the little bird had gone to Heaven to be with God and PoPo (my deceased grandfather).  I assured Spencer that the bird’s mommy and daddy knew their little one would be cared for and loved.  I told Spencer that PoPo loved little birds, and I was sure he was in Heaven holding and playing with the baby bird right then.  I picked up the little creature’s body, slipped it into my plastic bag and gently placed the bird in the trash can.  Nothing else was said about the matter for the rest of the day.  Spencer went right back to playing as if he had never been interrupted, and I returned to my work in the kitchen.

At breakfast the next morning, Spencer sadly explained to his father that he had found a baby bird the day before that had fallen from its nest.

“It was dead, Daddy!”

Trying to lift Spencer’s spirits and remind him that the little bird was really okay, I asked our son to tell Daddy where the baby bird was.  Spencer, looking solemn-faced at his dad, stated, “In trash can with Mama’s granddaddy, PoPo.”

 

Merilyn Gilliam

 

Isaiah 59:1

Behold, the Lord’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Trying To Control Us

 

Me:  Whats going on with your friends.

Prodigal:  They got caught up in their own noose.

Me:  Well maybe we can help.

 

This is from the book Parenting:  From Surviving to Thriving by Charles Swindoll

 

There are people who do not want us to be free.  They do not want us to be free before God, accepted just as we are by his grace.  They don’t want us to be free to express our faith originally and creatively in the world.  They want to control us; they want to use us for their own purposes.  They themselves refuse to live arduously and openly in faith, but huddle together with a few others and try to get a sense of approval by insisting that all look alike, talk alike, and act alike, thus validating one another’s worth.

They try to enlarge their numbers only on the condition that new members act and talk and behave the way they do.  These people infiltrate communities of faith “to spy out our freedom which we have in Christ Jesus” and not infrequently find ways to control, restrict and reduce the lives of free Christians.  Without being aware of it we become anxious about what others will say about us, obsessively concerned about what others think we should do.  We no longer live the good news but anxiously try to memorize and recite the script that someone else has assigned to us.

 

This is not the love of God but the control of man.  Please find others who can show you the love of God.

 

John 8:31-32

So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.”

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

 

Me:  Time for another video!

Prodigal  I am ready to watch.

 

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Proverbs 1:9

They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Miracle on the Homosassa

 

Me:  What a pretty creek!

Prodigal:  Yes, I am enjoying the peacefulness of it.

Me:  I can add a story about a creek to our time.

 

Back in the those days, our family was very poor.  We lived in a small house on the Homosassa River, four miles upstream from the Gulf of Mexico.  My father struggled to make ends meet as a commercial fisherman.

To help, my mother and I would gather oysters when they were in season.  Other times, we went into the woods and chopped fallen trees into firewood, which we sold to the people in town.  On good days, we could make a dollar or two.

This was 1939.  It was a bad time.  A lot of people were poor.  The fortunate people who had jobs earned 30 cents an hour.

That year, my other joined the Church of Jesus Christ in town.  There was no road from our house into town.  To get there, we had to go by boat three more miles upstream to the highway and the little village.  Even so, my mother was at the church every time the doors opened.  She loved the church.  It gave her a certain strength that carried her through the ordeal of raising a family in such dark days.

We didn’t have a Bible in our home.  We couldn’t afford one.  This was a great sadness for my mother.  Week after week, she tried to put a few coins aside, saving for enough to buy a Bible, but time and again some emergency would come up, and she had to use the money for food or clothes or medicine.  She never complained, but her face showed her hunger for the word of God in our house.

One day my father came home from work with an empty boat.  He had caught nothing.  He went into the house discouraged, as though he never wanted to look at the river again.

I watched my mother.  She got into the boat, arranged the nets, started the motor and headed downstream.  As she later told me many times, she went about a mile toward those vast, shallow flats that reach as far as the eye can see at the mouth of the Homosassa.  She cut off the motor.  Then she knelt in the bow of the little boat, and she began talking to God.

“Father,” she said, “I want a Bible for my home and my children.  We don’t have any money, and so I need Your help.  Let me catch some fish today and I’ll take them to the market and buy a Bible before nightfall.  I have been working hard, trying to get enough ahead to buy a Bible, but I can’t seem to make it.  Anything I catch today will be Yours.  Please help me.”

She started the motor.  Standing up, she threw into the water the staff that held one end of the net.  Slowly she moved the boat in a circle to close off the net.  Even before she had gone halfway, fat mullet began jumping into the net.  And by the time she had completed the circle, the trapped area was alive with flouncing fish.  My mother had lived on the river over a dozen years, ever since she married my father at the age of 16, and she had never seen anything like this.

As fast as my mother could empty her catch into the boat, the net filled up again.  In an hour, there was hardly enough room in the boat for herself and the net.  She headed home.

I was on the dock as my mother arrived.  The boat was riding so low in the water that I wondered if it had sprung a leak.   Then I saw the cargo.  I couldn’t believe my eyes.

“Come on,” Mother called to me.  “We’re going into town to get our Bible.”

We went upstream to the highway, where we borrowed a cart from a farmer, transferred the catch into it, then hurried into town to a wholesaler who sold fish to stores and restaurants.  The scales showed that my mother had brought in nearly 300 pounds of fish.  The wholesaler paid three cents a pound for the catch–almost ten dollars, as well as my father could do during a good, seven-day week.

We went directly into a bookstore and bought the best Bible the money could buy.  My mother let me carry the Bible as we went back to the river and returned the cart.  She let me hold it on my lap as she maneuvered the boat back to our home.  That evening, my mother read aloud to us from her own Bible for the very first time.

After nearly 40 years, the Bible is still in our family, a bit tattered now from so much use.  Every morning, my mother would read the Bible to herself; every evening, she would read aloud to the family.  We children studied the Bible as we prepared for our Sunday-school classes.  And my mother never tired of telling people how she had acquired it.

In December of 1976, my parents celebrated their golden wedding anniversary.  In the special ceremony at our church, my mother and my father held the family Bible between them–living proof that the miracles of the Bible can come alive today for those who have faith enough to believe in them.

 

Isaiah 32:17

And the effect of righteousness will be peace, and the result of righteousness, quietness and trust forever.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

 

Prodigal:  These are good!

Me:  Yes, this is for you Mom, I love you!

 

Today we have another video in our series of the Proverbs.  Watch the video and please share with others.

 

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Proverbs 1:8

 

My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

The Seed Sprouts

 

Me:  Look at all the flowers that grew!

Prodigal:  Yes, I am growing where I am planted.

Me:  Yes, we should all try to do that.

 

This is from the book Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl by Lysa Terkeurst

 

Too many people think that finding the reason God placed us here on earth will come in one lump assignment with a big title and complete job description.  I believe that discovering our purpose will unfold slowly, like a seed planted deep in the ground.

Each day, a seed embraces the task placed before it.  Today it might have to embrace the dark soil it has been pushed into.  Tomorrow, it might be not resisting the water that makes it literally disintegrate and fall apart.  And then in a week or two, a green shoot pushes up and out of the deep, dark, messy place.  Eventually, the seed sprouts and reveals exactly what is was always meant to be.  The seed’s potential is unlocked and its purpose is revealed through embracing each and every circumstance God brought its way.  Isn’t it glorious how nature doesn’t resist God?  Sadly, too many of God’s people cannot say the same.

So, just for today I will love this way.  Just for today, I am making the choice to not settle.  Just for today, I will not let the subtly influences of pride and thinking I know what is best for me overshadow my desire for more of God in my life.  Today, I will believe with absolute certainty.  Today, I will obey with complete surrender.  Today, I will seek with complete abandon.  For doing this is fulfilling the purpose for which I was created…not to bring myself glory by some great accomplishment but to bring God glory by making Him my greatest heart’s desire.

O God, let me make that choice today.  Even if it is just for a day–how I long for it to be more–but even if it is just for today, may it be completely so.  For one day completely with You is truly, truly better than a thousand elsewhere.

 

Psalm 30:1

I will extol thee, O LORD; for thou hast lifted me up , and hast not made my foes to rejoice over me.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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Women Lovin’ Jesus

 

Me:  You have a light to guide you?

Prodigal:  Yes, and that light is God’s word.

Me: Here is God’s word to help you.

 

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Proverbs 1:7

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge:  but fools despise wisdom and instruction.

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Like An Angel

Me:  Angels are real!

Prodigal:  Yes, do you have a story about them.

 

This is from Chicken Soup for the Christian Soul 2

 

Returning to work as a nurse after an illness of six months was an ordeal in itself, but now the bitter cold and intense winds added to my stress.  The employee entrance to the hospital was on the west side of the old brick building.  The parking lot was on the east side across the street, so I’d have to cross the vast expanse to reach the entrance, with the unrelenting wind pushing me along.

My recent bout with pneumonia and the subsequent asthma attacks made me doubt if I could survive the walk on this subzero morning.  After parking my car, I crossed the street and carefully battled the elements as I started for the entrance.  Within seconds, I realized it was hopeless.  My weakened condition and the penetrating cold took my breath away.  The icy winds blowing off Lake Michigan pierced my lungs like shards of crystal.  My chest tightened.  I realized I would soon be in distress and unable to make the distance.  I looked back at the warm car and contemplated whether to return to it or risk going ahead.  The early morning darkness seemed to close in one me, and wafts of icy snow blew around my legs.

At that moment a shaft of light opened in the shadows on the side of the building, spilling light from a small doorway onto the pavement ahead of me.  A tall, lean figure in along, threadbare woolen coat and knit cap stood silhouetted against the amber light from the doorway. He stood holding the door against the frigid air and waved for me to come in.

I could see the boiler room inside, an area prohibited to nursing personnel.  I didn’t want to be in trouble for being in a restricted area, but it was predawn, dark and cold, and I could barely breathe.  My mind raced.  The elderly black man raised his arm and motioned me toward him for the second time.  I thanked him for getting me out of the cold and followed him past the steaming pipes of the boiler room.  I had a sense of deep calm and peace as he spoke in soft tones and led me through the maze of pipes.  As if he were trying to reassure me, he talked about the cold, the old pipes and cautioned me to watch my steps.  He opened a doorway and I was directly in front of my time clock.

I quickly punched in my time card, then turned to thank him and to tell him that he had probably saved my life, but he was gone.  As mysteriously as he came, he’d left.

In the weeks that followed, I looked for him, but no one knew who he was.  I had many questions for him:  How did he know I was out there in the dark, since there were no windows on the door or on that side of the building?  Why did he risk his job by giving me access to a restricted area?  How did he know which was my time clock since various departments used different clocks?  And why did no one know him?

The memory of that figure silhouetted against the light, motioning for me to follow, reminds me that angels come in many forms.

Naomi Follis

 

James 4:8

Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.  Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org