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Prodigal: This game is lookin’ angry.

Me: I agree!

This is from Thoughts of a Christian Optimist by William Arthur Ward

We are most like beasts when we kill. We are most like men when we judge. We are most like God when we forgive.

Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. 1 Corinthians 13:7 (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

General Guidelines

Prodigal: I’ve had a lot of screen time….I am switching to this to communication.

Me: I’m completely on board with that….lol

This is from the book Growing up Social by Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane

There are general guidelines for deciding what content is appropriate for your child to watch.

  1. What factual data is my child learning from this program? If there is factual data, is it correct? You want you child’s mind to be filled with truth. If the program communicates a distorted vision of reality instead of how life works in the real world, you don’t want your child watching. You want your child to be exposed to things that are real and not a distortion of reality.
  2. What kind of character traits is this program seeking to build in my child? Is the main character someone I want my child to copy? If the humor comes from cutting others down, being rude, or showing disrespect to authority, that’s a red light. Positive programs will teach your child to care for others, work hard, resolve conflict, or overcome obstacles.
  3. How does this program treat family members? Television sitcoms often degrade men and fathers by making them lazy, fat, or stupid. What messages will your child hear about men, women, marriage, and parents? How is the family represented?
  4. Is this program consistent with our family values? A child is running into all sorts of values during his or her early years. You can’t control what your child sees outside at school or other places, but you can control what he or she is exposed to at home. What is viewed on screens should be in keeping with your family values, or it should be off limits.

And the woman said to Elijah, Now by this I know that thou art a man of God, and that the word of the LORD in thy mouth is truth. 1 Kings 17:14 (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

Prodigal: If that don’t beat all.

Me: I know!

This is a short video devotion on Proverbs.

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Proverbs 14:33 Wisdom is driven away in his wickedness: but the righteous hath hope in his death. (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Compel To Them

Prodigal: I don’t know if I can play this game.

Me: It’s as easy as fallin’ of a log.

Prodigal: Let’s play then!

This is from the book Charles H. Spurgeon: The Best from All His Works.

Hear then, O ye that are strangers to the truth as it is in Jesus–hear then the message that I have to bring you. Ye have fallen, fallen in our father Adam; ye have fallen also in yourselves, by your daily sin and your constant iniquity; you have provoked the anger of the Most High; and as assuredly as you have sinned, so certainly must God punish you if you persevere in your iniquity, for the Lord is a God of justice, and will by no means spare the guilty. But have you not heard, hath it not long been spoken in your ears, that God, in his infinite mercy, has devised a way whereby, without any infringement upon his honor, he can have mercy upon you, the guilty and the undeserving?

To you I speak; and my voice is unto you, O sons of men; Jesus Christ, very God of very God, hath descended from heaven, and was made in the likeness of sinful flesh. Begotten of the Holy Ghost, he was born of the Virgin Mary; he lived in this world a life of exemplary holiness, and of the deepest suffering, till at last he gave himself up to die for our sins, “the just for the unjust, to bring us to God.” And now the plan of salvation is simply declared unto you–“Whosoever believeth in the Lord Jesus Christ shall be saved.” For you who have violated all the precepts of God, and have disdained his mercy and dared his vengeance, there is yet mercy proclaimed, for “whosoever calleth upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” “For this is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am chief;” “whosoever cometh unto him he will in no wise cast out, for he is able also to save unto the uttermost them that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for us.”

Then opened he their understanding, that they might understand the scriptures, Luke 24:45 (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Don’t Treat Others As Objects.

Prodigal: I love my friend!

Me: Speaking of love. We have given God countless reasons not to love us. But He still does.

This is from the book Christian Caregiving: A Way of Life by Kenneth C. Haugk

Now, there are many ways–some quite subtle–of treating a person as an object. For example, you could become so concerned about getting your own religious ideas across to the person with whom you talk that your forget there is an individual before you with unique problems that need to be ministered to. You also might be preoccupied with getting in Bible reading and prayers, forgetting that an individual might need these resources tailored to his or her own situation. Or you might be in such a hurry to share your faith with someone that you neglect to notice the person is not yet ready to hear your testimony.

Questions you always need to ask yourself are these: Am I here to help the other person, or am I here to help myself, to further my own goals? Am I using the tools of Christian helping to fulfill my own needs or the needs of the other person? If your words and your actions show that you have no ulterior motives for relating to someone, and you are interested solely in helping the person with is or her own unique needs–then you will avoid ministering to him or her as an object.

Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Amos 3:3 (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

I’m Drowning

Me: Be careful near the water.

Prodigal: I will.

This is from Ruth Harms Calkin

Lord, I’m drowning

In a sea of perplexity.

Waves of confusion

Crash over me.

I’m too weak

To shout for help.

Either quiet the waves

Or lift me above them–

It’s too late

To learn to swim.

Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst. (ESV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

Me: PRODIGAL!

Prodigal: I’m just trying to take a nap.

Me: Sorry.

Here is a short video devotion on Proverbs.

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Proverbs 14:31 He who oppresses the poor reproaches his Maker, But he who honors Him has mercy on the needy. (NKJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Lasting Beyond Your Life

Prodigal: What can our prayers do?

Me: They can do more than you think.

This is from the book Stories of the Heart and Home by Dr. James Dobson

I’m told that George McCluskey, my great-grandfather on the maternal side, carried a similar burden for his children through the final decades of his life. He invested the hour from eleven to twelve o’clock each morning to intercessory prayer for his family. However, he was not only asking God to bless his children, he extended his request to generations not yet born! In effect, my great-grandfather was praying for me.

Toward the end of his life, the old man announced that God had made a very unusual promise to him. He was given the assurance that every member of four generations of our family would be Christians, including those yet to be born. He then died and the promise became part of the spiritual heritage that was passed to those of us in George McCluskey’s bloodline. As members of his family not only know the Lord but serve the Lord.

Numbers 12:7

My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house.

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Thank You, Billie

Me: What a great pair you are!

Prodigal: I heard something I wanted to share. A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.

This is from Grayce Shapiro

How much of a married couple’s time together is spent in quiet pleasures, such as eating breakfast in the morning sun or enjoying an evening walk! Even late at night, when my husband was asleep, I enjoyed reading and writing and thinking, knowing he was there.

But when Billie died, those simple pleasures died with him. I was too tense to sleep. Each moment that I was awake and each tick of the clock reminded me that he wasn’t there. I’d fall asleep only as dawn was breaking, and be wakened moments later by my alarm.

On one such morning I drowsily stumbled into the kitchen, put on the tea kettle, then wandered back into the bedroom and lay down on the bed. Instantly I was fast asleep, the deep exhausted sleep that finally comes, but never when I wanted it to. I had a dream. Billie and I were in the kitchen preparing coffee and toast. I saw him taking bread out of the bag and putting it in the toaster. I could hear him asking me if the water was boiling yet. Suddenly he became stern, saying, “Darling, you have the kettle on the wrong burner.” And he repeated himself. Then he yelled, “Darling, you have it on the wrong burner!”

I jumped to my feet. There was an overpowering smell of gas in the room. The stove! The pilot light that I hadn’t repaired! I dashed to the kitchen, turned off the stove, threw open the windows.

“Oh, thank You, God!” I cried out. And then I added the words that changed my life, “Thank you, Billie.”

Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marvelled; and they took knowledge of them, that they had been with Jesus. Acts 4:13 (KJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

Prodigal: Just hanging around today.

Me: Yep, that is a good thing.

This is a short video devotion on Proverbs.

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Proverbs 14:30 A sound heart is life to the body, But envy is rottenness to the bones. (NKJV)

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org