Creating Change

 

Prodigal:  Help,  I am not sure what to do this is all a mess!

Me:  I think it’s best if you skin your own rabbit.

Prodigal:  Your probably right.

 

This is from the book Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl by Lysa Terkeurst

 

I remember hearing my Bible friends talking freely about hearing from God and seeing Him in remarkable ways.  I called them my Bible friends while my eyes rolled and my voice mocked their enthusiasm.  I remember thinking they really did overspiritualize life and take this God thing a little too seriously.

Shortly thereafter, I was standing in the canned goods aisle at the grocery store.  There must have been a special on green beans, as the cans were all out of order.  Some were lying on their sides; others were twisted this way and that, French-cut string beans mixed in with the regular cuts.  It was messy and chaotic.  I stood there and willed God to do something miraculous with these cans, to send me a message through them.  Nothing came.  So I left the store mad, frustrated, and convinced God doesn’t speak to regular people like me.

Looking back now, I realize I wasn’t truly looking to experience God.  I was looking to make God act on my command.  That day in the green bean aisle, I was looking for cheap magic tricks that wowed me, not divine experiences that would change me.  God isn’t in the business of creating change to impress people; He is in the business of impressing on people their need to be changed.  There’s a big difference.

 

 

Acts 16:31

And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.”

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Loving People I Don’t like

 

Me:  Prodigal, I don’t like the looks of him.

Prodigal:  Sometimes we are to love others even when we think we can’t.

Me:  Very true!

 

This is from Jerry White

 

A part of living under the lordship of Christ is allowing unlovable people into our lives, people who we would never choose on our own.  They enter our lives, often like a storm, disturbing our tranquility and testing our patience.

Paul gives us some guidelines for  dealing with these people:  “Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those without strength and not just please ourselves.  Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to his edification.  Wherefore, accept one another, just as Christ also accepted us to the glory of God”  (Romans 15:1-2,7).

The first requisite for loving the unlovable is to realize how Christ accepted you.  Where would you be today without Him?  What if His acceptance had been conditional?  Realize that right now Christ fully accepts you as you are, full of imperfections and problems, all of which He knows completely.

The second emerges from a basic decision to accept everyone God brings across your path.  In God’s plan there are no accidental meetings.  In each encounter God has a purpose for both the needy person and you.  You may be the one who can really help and counsel the person.

Determine to be an encouragement to everyone whom God brings across your path.  It costs little to say a kind word and to communicate a sense of support.  But like the girl who doesn’t want to encourage a suitor, we fear that kind words will lead to further demands.  Such is the risk.

We never know where a kindness will lead, because only God can see the potential of the man or woman in our presence.

 

Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart.

1 Peter 1:22

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

The Relentless Friend

 

Me:  What is on your mind?

Prodigal:  Just the ways that God works.

Me:  There are many ways that God works.

 

This is from the book  The God Who Hung on the Cross by Dois Rosser Jr. and Ellen Vaughn

 

One night a young Indian man came to me.  “I know you’ve been building churches,” he said.  “Would you come look at a church that our congregation is helping?”

I wanted to see the church, but I was exhausted.  We had been going to bed at midnight, getting up at five each morning; the days were full of ministry and the nights as well.  My spirit wanted to see his church; my flesh just wanted to go to bed.

The next day, the same man was back.  “Won’t you come see my church?’ he asked.

I put him off again. But the next day there he was again, and finally, just like the persistent widow who came after the unrighteous judge in Christ’s parable, he wore me down.

“How far is it?” I asked.

“Oh, just a short drive, maybe an hour and a half from here,”  he said confidently.

Well, an hour and a half of Indian time can be rather different from American time.

About four hours after we started out in our beat-up jeep, bouncing and jolting over the dusty roads, we pulled into a clearing near a mountain.  We parked the jeep.  In the distance, up a jagged hill, I could see a clearing with the roughed-in structure of a church building.

Three large stones marked the entrance to the path up the incline.  They were about ten feet high and almost as wide-irregular, heavy gray boulders.  Painted on each one was a white washed sign of the cross.

In the distance I could see people slowly making their way toward us.  Acrid smoke rose from a buffalo-dung fire; in the haze I could see few ghostly figures tending the blaze.

My Indian friend had neglected to tell me something.  As we climbed the hill, I realized that I was looking at a leper colony.

It was like a scene from the New Testament.  My heart twisted as I saw men and women with ragged strips of cloth wrapped around the stumps where their fingers had been.  Many wore cloths over their disfigured faces.  They shuffled forward to greet as their toe less feet stirring up small clouds of dust.

As we greeted them, I realized not all were lepers.  Many of the children were healthy, and so were some of the spouses.  But they had been ostracized as well.

As the people shyly welcomes us, our Indian friend translated:  “They want you to see their church,” he said.

We walked further into the little camp.  As we drew closer to the church, I was thunderstruck.  Still in the early stages of construction, the church was already four levels of heavy stone.  The people were working together; those who were able had hacked big granite slabs out of the mountain, and the others had carried them down to build that church.  I can still see them in my mind’s eye; gaunt men and women edging down the mountain path on their crippled feet, cradling heavy granite boulders balanced on their finger less hands.  Then they would lay their burden on the wall, and a skilled worker would lay it in and mortar the joints.  They had been working for over a year and had no funds to continue to the next stage.

Later, as we prepared to leave, the pastor of the leper colony asked if they could pray for us–and if we could pray for them.  We gathered in a circle. I closed my eyes–but then, as the pastor began to pray, I heard a rustling.  I looked.  There, lying on the ground, their saris and shawls spread out like ragged flags, were all the members of that leper community, prostrate before the living God.  As I watched them, I realized that they were no longer this world’s untouchable rejects, pathetic people to be pitied.  They were glad subjects of  the King of Heaven.

The faith of those lepers in India was absolutely humbling.  There we were, rich Americans with every resource at our fingertips-bowled over by the sight of men and women building a church with nothing at their fingertips.  Not even fingers.

But that sight of weak and partial people physically moving a mountain of stone should be no surprise.  It’s the same paradox by which God has chosen to work since the beginning.  He uses the weak and powerless things of the world to show His mighty power.  He is the One who builds His church, stone by living stone.

 

Romans 10:20

Then Isaiah is so bold as to say, “I have been found by those who did not seek me; I have shown myself to those who did not ask for me.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

Three in One

 

Me:  How is your day Prodigal?

Prodigal:  I am jumpin’ round like cold water on a hot skillet.

Me:  Do you have a little time for me?

Prodigal:  I always have time for you!

 

This is from the book I have a Friend Who’s Jewish Do You? by Don Goldstein

 

If the Lord is one, then what’s this business of God having a Son, and the Holy Spirit?  Now if you are having trouble understanding that we believe in one God with a triune nature (Father, Son, and Ruach haKodesh), you are either Jewish and have had the Shema drilled into your head all your life, or you are just trying to reason how three can be one.  Perhaps this will help.

Just as you have a spirit, soul, and body but are considered “one”, so God is “one”.  Another example of this concept would be water is still one element whether it is in the form of liquid(water), steam(gas), or ice (solid).

Jews grow up learning the “Shema”.  (Known as such because Shema is the first Hebrew word in the verse).  It is like (but is not) the national anthem of Judaism.

Shema Yisrael Adonai Elohuenu Adonai Echad

“Hear O Israel the Lord out God the Lord is one. “Deuteronony 6:4

The last word “echad” means “united”, i.e. “one”.  Let’s look elsewhere in our Torah in Genesis where the sentence structure is identical to Deuteronomy 6:4 and the word “echad” is used.  When God is referring to two becoming “united” or “one” in marriage He uses the word “echad”.

Genesis 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one (echad) flesh.

In Hebrew this would read “basar echad” or literally “flesh united as one”.  There is another word for “one” in the Hebrew language, “yachid”.  It denotes a singular one or an absolute one.  If God wanted to say that He was a singular one, He would have said “Shema Yisrael Adonai Elohenu Adonai Yachid” but He didn’t.  Instead He told us that He is “echad”, a unity of one.

 

Deuteronomy 6:1

Now these are the commandments, the statutes, and the judgments, which the LORD your God commanded to teach you, that ye might do them in the land whither ye go to possess it;

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

Holy Fools

 

Prodigal:  That pack house doesn’t look like much.

Me:  You can never tell sometimes.  It can be very useful.

Prodigal:  God can use anything can’t he.

 

This is from the book Reaching for the Invisible God by Philip Yancey

 

God often does his work through “holy fools,” dreamers who strike out in ridiculous faith, whereas I approach my own decisions with calculation and restraint.  In fact, a curious law of reversal seems to apply in matters of faith.  The modern world honors intelligence, good looks, confidence, and sophistication.  God, apparently, does not.  To accomplish his work God often relies on simple, uneducated people who don’t know any better than to trust him, and through them wonders happen.  The least gifted person can become a master in prayer, because prayer requires only an intense desire to spend time with God.

 

Praise God that he can use the weak things of this world to show His glory!

 

Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God

1 Peter 5:6

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Where Do We Go?

 

Me:  Wait up Prodigal!  I am glad that I caught up with you!

Prodigal:  Sorry, but I am jumpin’ ’round like cold water on a hot skillet.

Me:  Well, take one break while I share!

 

This is from the book Psalm 91 by Peggy Joyce Ruth and Angelia Ruth Schum

 

When I think of how utterly impossible it is to protect ourselves from all the evils in the world, I am reminded of sheep.  Sheep have no real protection other than their shepherd.  In fact, a sheep is the only animal I can think of that has no built-in protection.  It has no sharp teeth, no offensive odor to spray to drive off its enemies, no loud bark, and it certainly can’t run fast enough to escape danger.  That’s why the Bible calls us God’s sheep!  God is saying, “I want you to see Me as your source of protection.  I am your shepherd.”  Now He may use doctors, policeman, fireman, storm cellars, bank accounts, and so forth to meet our specific needs, but our hearts have to run to Him first as our shepherd and our protector.  Then He will choose the method He desired to bring about the protection.

 

God will protect!  You are one of His sheep and what good shepherd does not protect His sheep?

 

Psalm 30:2

O LORD my God, I cried to you for help, and you have healed me.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Twenty Years

Me:  It is a good day to go to church!

Prodigal:  Yes, thank God for the churches we have around America.

Me:  That reminds me of one town’s first church.

 

This is from the book  The God Who Hung on the Cross by Dois Rosser Jr. and Ellen Vaughn

In the village where we built one of the first churches, the Hindus had sneered at the Christians for years.  “If your God is so great,” they jeered, “why does He not even have a temple?”  The Christians had explained that God’s temple dwells in human hearts, but still, they yearned for a physical place to gather as group and demonstrate that spiritual reality.

The day we dedicated that village church, a tattered old man grabbed my arm.  Dr. Joshua translated as he spoke:  “I prayed for twenty years,” he said, his dark face split by a huge grin.  “I prayed that a church would come to our village.  It would take a miracle for that to happen.  And now here it is!”

 

Don’t stop praying, even if it takes 20 years!  An answered prayer from God is always worth waiting for.

 

Philippians 2:3

Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Speak Up

Me:  Hi Prodigal!

Prodigal:  I am just deep in thought and trying to seek wisdom and discernment from the Lord.

Me:  I will share with you some wisdom.

 

This is from Martin Niemoller a Lutheran pastor in Germany in the 1930’s

 

In Germany they came first for the communists, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a communist.  Then they came for the Jews, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Jew.  Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn’t  speak up because I wasn’t a trade unionist.  Then they came for the Catholics, and I didn’t speak up because I was a Protestant.  Then they came for me, and by that time no one was left to speak up.

 

It is difficult to speak up at this time.  You don’t want to get involved but at times we are called to get involved.  God will show you the words to say with compassion, but you have to be obedient in speaking the truth.

 

Isaiah 55:7

Let the wicked forsake his way, and unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Communion with the Father

Me:  How are you doing Prodigal?

Prodigal:  I’m a happy as a mouse in a cheese factory!

Me:  Gardening can bring join, I should go spend time doing that now.

 

This is from the book Great Women of the Christian Faith by Edith Deen

 

This is from Mary Slessor who was a Scottish missionary  to Africa during the early 1900’s

 

To one who said he had prayed without avail, she wrote:  “You thought God was to hear and answer you by making everything straight and pleasant–not so are nations or churches or men and women born; not so is character made.  God is answering your prayer in His way.”

 

We have to continue to remind ourselves that God’s ways are not our way’s.  We go to Him in complete surrender.  We go to Him and say King of the universe you answer this prayer the way to see is best and I will continue to obey because you are true wisdom.

 

Psalm 110:21

But do thou for me, O God the Lord, for thy name’s sake:  because thy mercy is good, deliver thou me.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincouneling.org

Time to Reflect

 

Prodigal:  This is where Billy Graham began his preaching.

Me:  I am Happy Billy you are with Our Lord and to his family I am sorry for the grief you are experiencing.

 

The past 24 hours have been interesting in a way that makes to want to reflect on life for a moment as the sun washes the world with light and a new day.  A couple of things have happened.  First of all Asher decided to show up 18 days early, weighing at 7 pounds and 11 ounces.  With that brings the hurrying, the amazement that a new personality, new person has just entered into your life and the thoughts of what joys and blessing will come to us who know him.

Then on the other side of the coin.  The announcement of death.  This death is not without hope though because we know Billy Graham is with our Lord.  Billy was someone who I admired.  I never met him,but I will in heaven. He was born and raised in North Carolina with three siblings just like me and then even came to Florida and started preaching.  I do not preach but I also started my ministry in Florida.  So a little bit of that shared journal has made me look into his life.

What impressed me about Billy is two personal stories that I have heard.  He would never be in a room alone with a woman that was not his wife.  The second is that one time he slipped and fell and cracked his ribs and then went on to speak to others about God hours later with no pain killers.

The little decisions in life and little moments make up your character.  It is sometimes the things that people don’t see.  It is the little things that can be the hardest to do.  It is the little things that we believe do not make a difference.

I have been on a journey of late and that journey has brought with it ups and downs.  I have run into the question of what happens when people refuse to accept God’s love?  What happens with they are blind and deaf?  What happens when these people will refuse to accept God’s love and remain blind and deaf until the day they die?

My journey has been a surrounding of this.  So I have sought to figure out what the Lord wanted to show me with these circumstances.   The Lord has then been able to show me an answer. The answer that was shown is to love them and have compassion on them in your heart.  God has allowed my eyes and ears to be open and to receive His love. All I can do is be a reminder that God is love.  You accept it or you don’t but I am accepting it.  I am living with thankfulness and I am living with praise that God is love.

What will I say to the blind and deaf, to those who have not accepted God’s love?  Thank you and praise you that you have been in my life.  I have truly learned to love because I know I can love you whether your eyes and ears open or not.  I can have compassion on you and still pray for you whether you understand God’s love or not.

God you have made this day and given me my daily bread already.  God, I will continue to praise you and I know there will be nothing finer than to meet you when my time on earth is done and experience that love in a perfect heaven with your angels.   In the meantime, while I am here, I will continue to bask in your love for me everyday.  I will continue to have compassion on those who remain blind and deaf.

 

Psalm 26:12

My feet stand on level ground; in the great congregation I will praise the LORD.

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org