Flowers Outside

 

Me:  Leaving class?

Prodigal:  Yep and we were studying about Gregory of Nyssa

Me:  Very interesting.  I can share another story for you.

This is from the book Reaching for the Invisible God by Philip Yancey

 

My roommate for two years at a Christian college was a German named Reiner.  Returning to Germany after graduation, Reiner taught at a camp for the disable where, relying on college notes, he gave a stirring speech on the Victorious Christian Life.  “Regardless of the wheelchair you are sitting in, you can have victory, a full life.  God lives within you!”  he told his audience of paraplegics, cerebral palsy patients, and the mentally challenged.  He found it disconcerting to address people with poor muscle control.  Their heads wobbled, they slumped in their chairs, they drooled.

The campers found listening to Reiner equally disconcerting.  Some of them went to Gerta, director of the camp, and complained that they could not make sense of what he was saying. “Well then, tell him!” said Gerta.

One brave woman screwed up her courage and confronted Reiner.  “It’s like you’re talking about the sun, and we’re in a dark room with no windows.”  she said.  “We can’t understand anything you say.  You talk about solutions, about the flowers outside, about overcoming and victory.  These things don’t apply to us in our lives.”

My friend Reiner was crushed.  To him, the message seemed so clear.  He was quoting directly from Paul’s epistles, and was he not?  His pride wounded, he thought about coming at them with a kind of spiritual bludgeon:  There’s something wrong with you people.  You need to grow in the Lord.  You need to triumph over adversity.

Instead, after a night of prayer, Reiner returned with a different message.  “I don’t know what to say,”  he told them the next morning.  “I’m confused.  Without the message of victory, I don’t know what to say.”  He stayed silent and hung his head.

The woman who had confronted him finally spoke up from the room full of disabled people.  “Now we understand you, ” she said.  “Now we are ready to listen.”

 

Psalm 85:8

Let me hear what God the Lord will speak, for he will speak peace to his people, to his saints; but let them not turn back to folly.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

People in Your Life

 

Me:  Are you playing basketball?

Prodigal:  Yes, I am playing with my friend.

Me:  How are you doing?

Prodigal:  He’s so fast he can blow out the candle and jump into bed before it gets dark.

Me:  That must be a tough game then.

Prodigal:  It sure is.

Me:  Well let me share while you are resting.

 

This is from the book You Can Change by Tim Chester

 

God is using the different people, the contrasting personalities, in your church to change your heart.  He’s using the difficult people, the annoying people, the sinful people.  He’s placed you together so you can rub off each other’s rough edges.  It’s as if God has put us, like rocks, into a bag and is shaking us about so that we collide with one another.  Sometimes sparks fly, but gradually we become beautiful, smooth gemstones.  Remember the next time someone is rubbing you the wrong way that God is smoothing you down!  God has give you the person in his love as a gift to make you holy.  Sinclair Ferguson comments, “The church is a community in which we receive spiritual help, but also one in which deep-seated problems will come to the surface and will require treatment….We often discover things about our own hearts which we never anticipated.

 

Guess what I am one of those annoying sinful people.  I know sparks are flying but lets focus on Christ so that we become beautiful smooth gemstones.

 

Proverbs 21:21

Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

 

Lions Roar

 

Me:  Howdy Prodigal and Lion!

Prodigal:  Howdy we have come to hear a story that my friend can relate too!

Me:  I hope it helps!

 

This come from the book God’s Little Devotional Book for Women

 

Birds sing….and never have to apologize for their songs.

Dogs bark and kittens meow…and never have to say, “I’m sorry for what I just said.”

Lions roar and hyenas howl…but they never have to retract their statements as being untrue.

The fact is, the members of the animal kingdom are themselves, and they are true in their expression to what they were created to be.

Many times we human beings find ourselves embarrassed at our own words–feeling apologetic, caught in an awkward moment, or recognizing we have spoken the wrong words at the wrong time–because we have begun evaluating the performance of others and develop a critical attitude.

The blue jay doesn’t criticize the robin.  The kitten doesn’t make snide remarks about the puppy.  The lion doesn’t ridicule the hyena.  In like manner, we should not put down others whom we can never fully understand, never fully appreciate, or never fully emulate.

Stick to singing your own song today, and appreciate the uniqueness of those around you.  You will easily avoid putting your foot in your mouth!

The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.  Proverbs 15:28

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

One Night

 

Me:  I don’t think that is a good friend to hang out with Prodigal.

Prodigal:  You don’t think so?

Me:  Well let’s just say he makes a hornet seem cuddly.

 

This is from the book The God who Hung on the Cross by Dois Rosser and Ellen Vaughn

 

In Vietnam, a pastor from Ho Chi Minh City, Thanh Huynh, felt that God was leading him to reach people in Ca Mau, a city in the southern tip of his country.  He traveled there, preached, baptized new believers, and rescued street children.  For these terrible “crimes,”  he was arrested repeatedly, harassed, and let go.

One night the policeman who kept arresting Pastor Thanh Huynh took him to the local police station.  When the policeman was asked by his superiors to give a report about the pastor’s activities, he opened his mouth to respond…and found that he was utterly unable to speak.  He could not say anything.

So the authorities had to let the pastor go.

Dumbfounded by this experience–literally–the policeman got a report a few weeks later that Pastor Thanh Huynh was back in town.  He snuck to the meeting, but this time, instead of just arresting the pastor, he listened. He heard the Gospel.  He decided to follow Jesus.

That former policeman went to seminary, and today, he is the pastor of one of the five churches that ICM has built in the Ca Mau area!

 

James 5:20

Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way, shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Hanging On A Tree

Me:  Are you hanging out in that tree?

Prodigal:  Yep, and why don’t you share with me.

 

In evil long I took delight,

Unawed by shame or fear,

Till a new object struck my sight,

And stopp’d my wild career:

 

I saw One hanging on a Tree

In agonies and blood,

Who fix’d His languid eyes on me.

As near His Cross I stood.

 

Sure never till my latest breath,

Can I forget that look:

It seem’d to charge me with His death,

Though not a word He spoke:

 

My conscience felt and own’d the guilt,

And plunged me in despair:

I saw my sins His Blood had spilt,

And help’d to nail Him there.

Alas!  I knew not what I did!

But now my tears are vain:

Where shall my trembling soul be hid?

For I the Lord have slain!

 

A second look He gave, which said,

“I freely all forgive;

This blood is for thy ransom paid;

I die that thou may’st live.”

Thus, while His death my sin displays

In all its blackest hue,

Such is the mystery of grace,

It seals my pardon too.

 

With pleasing grief, and mournful joy,

My spirit now is fill’d,

That I should such a life destroy,

Yet live by Him I kill’d!

 

John Newton 1779

 

Isaiah 38:7

And this shall be a sign unto thee from the Lord, that the Lord will do this thing that he hath spoken;

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Envy

 

Me:  Did you go to church this morning?

Prodigal:  Yes, I did but something about church wasn’t right.

Me:  Well, Let me share a poem with you.

 

Envy went to church this morning.

Being legion, he sat in every other pew.

Envy fingered wool and silk fabrics.

Hung price tags on suits and neckties.

Envy paced through the parking lot

Scrutinizing chrome and paint.

Envy marched through to the chancel with the choir

During the processional….

Envy prodded plain-jane wives,

And bright wives married to milquetoast dullards,

And kind men married to knife-tongued shrews.

Envy thumped at widows and widowers,

Jabbed and kicked college girls without escorts,

Lighted invisible fires inside khaki jackets.

Envy conferred also this morning

With all of his brothers.

He likes his Sunday scores today

But not enough;

Some of his intended clients

Had sipped an antidote marked Grace

And wore a holy flower named Love.

by  Elva McAllaster

 

Philippians 1:15-16

Some indeed preach Christ even from envy and strife, and some also from good will:  The former preach Christ from selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing to add affliction to my chains

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Praying Life

 

Me:  Your friends look like rough company.

Prodigal:  Yeah, he steal his mama’s egg money.

Me:  Maybe you should pray for him then.

Prodigal:  That is what I am planning on doing.

 

This is from the book A Praying Life by Paul Miller

 

Oddly enough, many people struggle to learn how to pray because they are focusing on praying, not on God.  Making prayer the center is like making conversation the center of a family mealtime.  In prayer, focusing on the conversation is like trying to drive while looking at the windshield instead of through it.  It freezes us, making us unsure of where to go.

 

Some of my best prayers times are just a simple conversation as if I am talking to someone who loves me and is interested in me.  Of course God is someone who loves me and is interested in me.

 

2 Corinthians 3:4

And such trust have we through Christ toward God.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Purity of Heart

 

Me:  Howdy Prodigal!  Your friend looks like he was weaned on a sour pickle.

Prodigal:  No he is just upset.  He needs some encouragement.

Me:  Maybe I can share some encouragement.

 

This is from the Secret of Happiness by Billy Graham

 

If we are truly pure in our hearts, we will have a single-minded devotion to the will of God.  Our motives will be unmixed, our thoughts will not be adulterated with those things which are not right.  And our hearts will be clean, because we will not tolerate known sin in our hearts and allow it to pollute us. 

 

We must continually go to God to cleanse our hearts.  Now is a time of confession and cleaning of our hearts before the Lord.

 

1 John 1:8-9

If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.  If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Our Helplessness

Me:  Your friend looks sad Prodigal!

Prodigal:  She eats sorrow by the spoonful.

Me:  Well maybe I can encourage her.

 

This is from the book Beyond Our Selves by Catherine Marshall

 

I learned that when achievement has come because of our helplessness linked to God’s power, it has a rightness about it that no amount of self-inspired striving can have.   Furthermore, when achievement comes this way, it does not bear in it the seeds of increasing egocentricity that success sometimes brings.  Because we know that ideas and the ability to implement them flowed into us from somewhere beyond our selves, we can be objective about our good fortune.  

Since then God has never allowed me the fulfillment of a soul’s sincere desire without first putting me through an acute realization of my inadequacy and my need for help.

 

I feel so helpless right now.  How do I stop from feeling discouraged in my helplessness?  I believe you have to pray and believe God’s promises.  Lord I pray that you will help me this day to focus on you and you alone.  Do not let me focus on the things of this world.

 

1 Corinthians 15:27

For he hath put all things under his feet.  But when he saith all things are put under him, it is manifest that he is excepted, which did put all things under him.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Automobiles

 

Me:  Nice car Prodigal!

Prodigal:  Thanks,  I am going to take a nice drive in the country!

Me:  While we are driving, I will share a story about automobiles.

 

This is from the book Growing Deep in the Christian Life by Chuck Swindoll

 

Many, many centuries ago, all this iron, glass, rubber, plastic, leather, and wires came up out of the ground.  Furthermore, each substance fashioned itself into various shapes and sizes….and holes evolved at just the right places, and the upholstery began to weave itself together.  After a while threads appeared on bolts and nuts and —amazing as it may seem–each bolt found nuts with matching threads.  And gradually everything sort of screwed up tightly in place.   A little later correctly shaped glass glued itself in the right places.  And you see these tires?  They became round over the years.  And they found themselves the right size metal wheels.  And they sort of popped on.  They also filled themselves with air somehow.  And the thing began to roll down the street.

And one day, many, many years ago–centuries, really–some people were walking and they found this vehicle sitting under a tree.  And one of them looked at it and thought, “How amazing.  I think we should call it automobile.  But there’s more!  These little automobiles have an amazing way of multiplying themselves year after year…even changing ever so slightly to meet the demands of the public.  Actually, that process is called “automutations.”

 

Maybe these people should believe in Jesus instead!

 

Ezekiel 6:13

And you shall know that I am the Lord, when their slain lie among their idols around their altars, on every high hill, on all the mountaintops, under every green tree, and under every leafy oak, wherever they offered pleasing aroma to all their idols.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org