You Must Do This

Me:  I don’t know if I should try this or not?

Prodigal:  Well, I am not sure.  Just tell a story and then we can come back to it.

Me:  Works for me.

This is from Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

When I say “discovered”, I mean really discovered:  not simply said in parrot-fashion.  Of course, any child, if given a certain kind of religious education, will soon learn to say that we have nothing to offer to God that is not already His own and that we find ourselves failing to offer even that without keeping something back.  But I am talking of really discovering this:  really finding out by experience that it is true.

Now we cannot, in that sense, discover our failure to keep God’s law except by trying our very hardest (and then failing).  Unless we really try, whatever we say there will always be at the back of our minds the idea that if we try harder next time we shall succeed in being completely good.  Thus, in one sense, the road back to God is a road of moral effort of trying harder and harder.  But in another sense it is not trying that is ever going to bring us home.  All this trying leads up to the vital moment at which you turn to God and say, “You must do this.  I can’t.”

Psalm 63:4-5

Thus will I bless you while I live; lifting up my hands, I will call upon your name.  As with the riches of a banquet shall my soul be satisfied, and will exultant lips my mouth shall praise you.

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Willing To Risk

 

Me:  Prodigal, I think it is risky for you to get to close to Conley’s….

Prodigal:  Sometimes you just have to take the risk.

 

This is from the book Believe and Rejoice by James Gills M.D.

 

Everybody knows you must take risks to be successful by earthly standards.  What we risk in order to make anything of our lives spiritually is even greater.  We have to risk worldly success, risk losing our feeling of independence, and risk giving up control of our lives.  But what we gain is so great that the risks pale in comparison.  Charles Swindoll asked, “Are you willing to risk as much to make a difference as you are willing to risk to make a dollar?”  To be truly relinquished we have to risk it all.

Yes, we risk without knowing the outcome.  That is taking a risk, because we trust God with the outcome and our lives.

 

Psalm 47:7

For God is the King of all the earth: sing ye praises with understanding.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Risking

 

Me:  Are you sure he is happy about what you are doing Prodigal?

Prodigal:  Sure this is fine.

Me:  There’s a big difference between an angry bull and a thorny bush.

 

Two seeds lay side by side in the fertile spring soil.

The first seed said, “I want to grow!  I want to send my roots deep into the soil beneath me, and thrust my sprouts through the earth’s crust above me……I want to unfurl my tender buds like banners to announce the arrival of spring….I want to feel the warmth of the sun on my face and the blessing of the morning dew on my petals!”

And so she grew.

The second seed said, “I am afraid.  If I send my roots into the ground below, I don’t know what I will encounter in the dark.  If I push my way through the hard soil above me I may damage my delicate sprouts….what if I let my buds open and a snail tries to eat them?  And if I were to open my blossoms, a small child may pull me from the ground.  No, it is much better for me to wait until it is safe.”

And so she waited.

A yard hen scratching around in the early spring ground for food found the waiting seed and promptly ate it.

Moral of the Story

Those of us who refuse to risk and grow get swallowed up by life.

Patty Hansen

 

I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me.

Philipppians 4:13

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

Prodigal:  It is Christmas time!

Me:  Yes, and with it is a reminder of our Lord’s birth.

Prodigal:  I hope we all remember.

Me:  Me too.

Here is another video

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Proverbs 1:32

For the waywardness of the simple will kill them, and the complacency of fools will destroy them;

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Handling Relationships

 

Me:  Wait one second, before you leave to start they day I wanted to share something that may help you with the people you are dealing with.

Prodigal:  Sure, I need to be focused today on the right thing.

 

This is from R. E. Thompson

 

Do other people’s failures annoy or challenge you?

Do you “use” people, or cultivate people?

Do you direct people, or develop people?

Do you criticize, or encourage?

Do you shun or seek out the person with a special need or problem?

 

The sadness of these is when someone chooses to “use” people.  It has made my heart weep with a despair when I see this.  The people who are being used at times are so insecure.  They just want that someone, that comment, that something that proves their worth instead of their identity in Christ.  Then someone comes along very selfish and just uses them.  In the end it is an ugly game.  Both people are miserable but do not know why at times and in the process that leads each other further from Christ.  Don’t use someone no matter how small it may seem.  You never know if this will start down a long path that is very far from both of your walks with the Lord.

 

1 Timothy 2:1

I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Let God be God

Me:  You  look like you are thinking.

Prodigal:  I am.  God seems like He makes no sense sometimes.

Me:  God is God and we can’t always understand everything going on around us.

This is from the book Prophetic Voices in Contemporary Theology by Alvin Porteous

It implies that there is in man no natural capacity by virtue of which he can grasp God and make him an object of knowledge.  To grant such a capacity would be to put revelation in the control of man and infringe upon the sovereign freedom of God to reveal himself as and where he will.

Be weary of that Christian who has figured out all the ways that God works and tells you everything that God thinks.  Even if we have words of wisdom or the Holy Spirit shares God’s truth.  God never lets anyone replace Him with all knowledge and future knowledge.  There is only one that knows all and that is God.

Psalm 33:1

Rejoice in the LORD, O ye righteous; for praise is comely for the upright.

Jennifer Van Allen

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Women Lovin’ Jesus

Prodigal:  Just waiting…

Me:  Well, here is a video while you wait.

Prodigal: Perfect suggestion.

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Proverbs 1:31

Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their way, and be filled with their own devices.

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

My Only Qualifications

 

Me:  Y’all are looking top feather!

Prodigal:  We try to dress it up sometime.

Me:  I will share about some other types of clothing.

 

This is from Max Lucado in his book In the Grip of Grace You Can’t Fall Beyond His Love

 

My only qualification for writing a book on grace is the clothing I wear.  Let me explain.

For years I owned an elegant suit complete with coat, trousers, even a hat.  I considered myself quite dapper in the outfit and was confident others agreed.

The pants were cut from the cloth of my good works, sturdy fabric of deeds done and projects completed.  Some studies here, some sermons there.  Many people complimented my trousers, and I confess, I tended to hitch them up in public so people would notice them.

The coat was equally impressive.  It was woven together from my convictions.  Each day I dressed myself in deep feelings of religious fervor.  My emotions were quite strong.  So strong, in fact, that I was often asked to model my cloak of zeal in public gatherings to inspire others.  Of course I was happy to comply.

While there I’d also display my hat, a feathered cap of knowledge.  Formed with my own hands from the fabric of personal opinion, I wore it proudly.

Surely God is impressed with my garments, I often thought.  Occasionally I strutted into his presence so he could compliment the self-tailored wear.  He never spoke.  His silence must mean admiration, I convinced myself.

But then my wardrobe began to suffer.  The fabric of my trousers grew thin.  My best works started coming unstitched.  I began leaving more undone than done, and what little I did was nothing to boast about.

No problem, I thought.  I’ll work harder.

But working harder was a problem.  There was a hole in my coat of convictions.  My resolve was threadbare.  A cold wind cut into my chest.  I reached up to pull my hat down firmly, and the brim ripped off in my hands.

Over a period of a few months, my wardrobe of self-righteousness completely unraveled.  I went from tailored gentleman’s apparel to beggars’ rags.  Fearful that God might be angry at my tattered suit, I did my best to stitch it together and cover my mistakes.  But the cloth was so worn.  And the wind was so icy.  I gave up.  I went back to God.  (Where else could I go?)

On a wintry Thursday afternoon, I stepped into his presence, not for applause, but for warmth.  My prayer was feeble.

“I feel naked.”

“You are.  And you have been for a long time.”

What he did next I’ll never forget.  “I have something to give you,” he said.  He gently removed the remaining threads and then picked up a robe, a regal robe, the clothing of his own goodness.  He wrapped it around my shoulders.  His words to me were tender.  “My son, you are now clothed with Christ” Gal 3:27

 

Romans 2:1

If you think you can judge others, you are wrong.  When you judge them, you are really judging yourself guilty, because you do the same things they do.  God judges those who do wrong things, and we know that his judging is right.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Pride Again

 

Prodigal:  I am about to have the perfect game!

Me:  Pride comes before the fall.

Prodigal:  I really want it to be perfect.

Me:  You should focus on just enjoying and leave perfection to Jesus

 

This is from the book So Long Insecurity by Beth Moore

Pride.  A root of insecurity if there ever was one.  We will never feel better about ourselves by becoming consumed with ourselves.  Likewise, we will never fell better about ourselves by feeling worse about others.  Superiority can’t give birth to security.  Neither, by the way, can the relentless pursuit of perfection.  Earlier in our journey, I suggested that perfectionism is insecurity in art form.  It never looks prettier and never acts deadlier.  Perfectionism is perhaps our culture’s biggest temptation.

 

You are no better than anybody else.  God has put you where you are and only Him.  It was not your doing so remember that pride has no place in what you are about to do.

 

Hebrews 2:11

Jesus is not ashamed to call them brothers.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Needy Mankind

Me:  What are you doing?

Prodigal:  Watching the street performers.

Me:  He’s so slick he can sell water to a well.

 

This is from the book Beyound Our Selves by Catherine Marshall

 

How, then, can human nature change?  Men have demonstrated that they cannot change themselves.  Nor can men change other men.  We have seen that education does not necessarily achieve it, nor legislation, nor raising incomes, nor plying them with all the gadgets that money can buy.  That brings us to the crown of the Holy Spirit’s work among men.  Only Christ can change the human nature, and it is the Holy Spirit that makes Christ available to needy mankind.

That is what happened to Saul of Tarsus, to Augustine, to Ignatius Loyala, to St. Francis of Assisi, and to thousands through the centuries.  It is still happening to men and women in our day.

 

You never know how the Holy Spirit and who the Holy Spirit is going to change next….

 

Proverbs 3:7

Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org