The Dark Side

 

Me: Howdy Prodigal!

Prodigal:  I was just alone with my thoughts.

Me:  Do you care to share?

Prodigal:  Not these thoughts…lol

 

This is from Michel de Montaigne

There is no man so good, who, were he to submit all his thoughts and actions to the laws, would not deserve hanging ten times in his life.

 

We are sinners.  That is why we need Jesus.  Do not put any leader on a pedal stool including me.  This is the reason why.  We may  have done a lot of good that day with our interactions with others.
We may have said all the right things, but can we go a day without some of our thoughts turning negative.  “I wish they would just be quiet.”  “Why are they even here.”  “They are not as deserving as I am.”  I will not list the thoughts that are even more evil.  Praise God though we can repent, we can see that we really do need our savior everyday.  We may have perfected the outside that fool many people, but we always need Jesus to keep us surrendering out hearts to him.

 

Genesis 6:5

Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

 

Women Lovin Jesus

 

Prodigal:  What are we doing today!

 

Me:  We are introducing my new you tube channel called Women Lovin Jesus.  This is about women lovin Jesus in all aspects of their lives and in all circumstances.  We will learn, grow and support each other!  Be sure to head over and check it out.

 

1 Corinthians 2:5

That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Significant Things

 

Me:  What are you looking at?

Prodigal:  All the children’s artwork.

Me:  Children’s artwork is precious

 

This is from C.S. Lewis Mere Christianity

 

One part of the claim tends to slip past us unnoticed because we have heard it so often that we no longer see what it amounts to.  I mean the claim to forgive sins: any sins.  Now unless the speaker is God, this is really so preposterous as to be comic.  We can all understand how a man forgives offences against himself.  You tread on my toes and I forgive you, you steal my money and I forgive you.  But what should we make of a man, himself unrobbed and untrodden on, who announced that he forgave you for treading on other men’s toes and stealing other men’s money?  Asinine fatuity is the kindest description we should give of his conduct.  Yet this is what Jesus did.  He told people that their sins were forgiven, and never waited to consult all the other people whom their sins had undoubtedly injured.  He unhesitatingly behaved as if He was the party chiefly concerned, the person chiefly offended in all offences.  This makes sense of if He really was the God whose laws are broken and whose love is wounded in every sin.  In the mouth of any speaker who is not God, these words would imply what I can only regard as a silliness and conceit unrivalled by any other character in history.

 

Your Father already knows your needs.

Luke 12:30

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Boundary Development

 

Me:  You are with some nice folks!

Prodigal:  Yep, I haven’t seen y’all in a coon’s age.

Me:  I was going to speak about children today.

 

This comes from the book Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

 

The Scriptures advise parents to “train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it” Proverbs 22:6.  Many parents misunderstand this passage.  They think “the way he should go” means “the way we, the parents think he or she should go.”  Can you see the boundary conflicts already beginning?

The verse actually means “the way God has planned for him or her to go.”  In other words, good parenting isn’t emotionally bludgeoning the child into come clone or ideal of the perfect child.  It’s being a partner in helping young ones discover what God intended for them to be and helping them reach that goal.

 

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is just let your child be a child and for us not to interfere.

 

Matthew 28:20

I am with you always to the end of the age.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

 

The Hammer, The File, and The Furnace

 

Me:  You are starting a fire?

Prodigal:  Yes, which means it is a perfect time to share.

 

This is from Charles Swindoll

 

 

It was the enraptured Rutherford who said in the midst of very painful trials and heartaches:

“Praise God for the hammer, the file, and the furnace!”

Let’s think about that.  The hammer is a useful and handy instrument.  It is an essential and helpful tool, if nails are ever to be driven into place.  Each blow forces them to bite deeper as the hammer’s head pounds and pounds.

But it the nail had feelings and intelligence, it would give us another side of the story.  To the nail, the hammer is brutal, relentless master–an enemy who loves to beat it into submission.  That is the nail’s view of the hammer.  It is correct.  Except for one thing.  The nail tends to forget that both it and the hammer are held by the same workman.  The workman decides whose “head” will be pounded out of sight…and which hammer will be used to do the job.

This decision is the sovereign right of the carpenter.  Let the nail but remember that it and the hammer are held by the same workman…and its resentment will fade as it yields to the carpenter without complaint.  The same analogy holds true for the metal that endures the rasp of the file and the blast of the furnace.  If the metal forgets that it and the tools are objects of the same craftsman’s care, it will build up hatred and resentment.  The metal must keep in mind that craftsman knows what he’s doing….and is doing what is best.

Heartaches and disappointments are like the hammer, the file, and the furnace.  They come in all shapes and sizes: an unfulfilled romance, a lingering illness and untimely death, and unachieved goal in life, a broken home or marriage, a severed friendship, a wayward and rebellious child, a personal medical report that advises “immediate surgery,”  a failing grade at school, a depression that simply won’t go away, a habit you can’t seem to break.  Sometimes heartaches come suddenly…other times they appear over the passing of many months, slowly as the erosion of earth.

Do I write to a “nail” that has begun to resent the blows of the hammer?  Are you at the brink of despair, thinking that you cannot bear another day of heartache?  Is that what’s gotten you down?

As difficult as it may be for you to believe this today, the Master knows what He’s doing.  Your Savior knows your breaking point.  The bruising and crushing and melting process is designed to reshape you, not ruin you.  Your value increasing the longer He lingers over you.

 

Matthew 6:8

Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalipig.com

www.faithincounseling.org