Me:  I think your friend is in love!

Prodigal:  I agree, head over heels!

Me:  That is a wonderful day to know you are very much loved!

This is from the book The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller

We have seen how marriage by its very nature has the power of truth and the power of love.  The power of truth is marriage’s ability to show you who you really are.  The power of love is marriage’s capacity for reprogramming your self-image, redeeming the past, and healing your deepest hurts.  And now a warning is in order.

We said that if everyone else says you’re ugly, and your spouse says you’re beautiful, you feel beautiful, because you spouse’s words have that kind of power.  But that means that the reverse if also true.  If everyone says you are beautiful and your spouse says you’re ugly, you will feel ugly.  Your spouse’s opinion of you can be a terrible weapon.  Early in your marriage you will realize what power you have to hurt your spouse.  You will know his or her sensitivities like no one else.  And cutting remarks from you will go deeper than any knife.

In this fallen world, marriage’s power of truth and power of love can be at loggerheads.  The reason marriage has the power to show me what’s wrong with me is because my spouse sees me to the bottom in a way that even I can’t see myself.  That is why her affirmation, verdict, and blessing have so much credibility and power.  But here’s the problem.  My wife does not learn about my sins like my physician learns about my diseases or like my counselor learns about my anger and fear.  She knows my sins because they so often are committed against her.  She knows I’m insensitive because I’m insensitive to her.  She knows I’m selfish because I’m selfish to her.

A focus on love needs to be given today.  A day to heal and a day to be reminded that the Lord has given us someone special and they are a blessing!

For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.

2 Corinthians 5:21

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Me:  Here is another ministry for women.

Prodigal:  Yes, and Christ should be the foundation for all.

Me:  I agree with that!

This is from the book Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders

A vision without a task makes a visionary.

A task without a vision is drudgery.

A vision with a task makes a missionary.

Stay focused on the path Christ has for you right now.  This is about staying the course with Christ.  There are distractions right now around you,but you have to stay with the vision.  The vision that Christ has been showing you all week.  Remember Christ started this and we should listen to His guidance.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.  1 John 1:9

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Me: I have another video, thank you for watching!

Prodigal: I will make sure I do!

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Proverbs 3:10

then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Prodigal:  I just finished reading.

Me:  Was it something good.

Prodigal:  It was not only truth but encouraging.

Me:  We will share then.

This comes from the book Growing Deep in the Christian Life by Charles Swindoll

God has always had a people, a people who believe by faith,

who trust and obey His Word, a people whose God is the Lord.

Many a foolish conqueror has made the mistake of thinking that because he had forced the Church of Jesus Christ out of sight, He had stilled its voice and snuffed out its life.

But God has always had a people;  He has always had a people who believe; that believe His Word, a people whose God is the Lord.

The powerful current of a rushing river is not diminished because it is forced to flow underground.  The purest water is the stream that bursts crystal clear into the sunlight after it has forced its way through solid rock.

There have been charlatans, like Simon the magician, who sought to barter on the open market that power which cannot be bought or sold.  But, God has always had a people…men who could not be bought, and women who were beyond purchase.  God has always had a people–people who believe by faith!

There have been times of affluence and prosperity when the Church’s message has been diluted into oblivion by those who sought to make it socially attractive, neatly organized, and financially profitable.

It has been gold-plated, draped in purple, and encrusted with jewels.  It has been misrepresented, ridiculed, lauded, and scorned.

These followers of Jesus Christ has been, according to the whim of the times, elevated as sacred leaders, and martyred as heretics.  Yet, through it all there marches on that powerful army of the meek–God’s chosen people who cannot be bought, flattered, murdered, or stilled!  On through the ages they march!

God has always had a people–the Church, God’s Church triumphant!  God has always had a people, followers of Jesus–chosen people.  A people who believe by faith, who trust and believe His Word, a people whose God is the Lord.  God has always–always–had a people!

For thou has been a shelter for me, and a strong tower from the enemy.  I will abide in thy tabernacle forever:  I will trust in the covert of thy wings.

Psalm 61:3-4

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Me:  Today is the day that the Lord has made.

Prodigal:  Yes,  who knows what the Lord will provide.

Me:  Let’s begin with a focus on Christ.

These are the words that Philip Henry, father of Matthew Henry wrote for his children.

I take God to be my chief end and highest good.

I take God the Son to be my prince and Savior.

I take God the Holy Spirit to be my sanctification,

teacher, guide, and comforter.

I take the Word of God to be my rule in all my actions

and the people of God to be my people

under all conditions.

I do hereby dedicate and devote to the Lord all I am,

all I have,

and all I can do.

And this I do deliberately, freely, and forever.

And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain:  for the former things are passed away.

Revelation 21:4

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Me: That chair looks like a throne.

Prodigal: It fits me, don’t you think.

Me: Sure, you are fit for royalty.

I had a busy day at the office, and my introverted self did not want to talk to anyone when I got home. The perfect night after this day was going to watch Netflix. I just wanted to indulge myself, and recharge from the day.

I decided on a foreign show to watch that night. Something different than anything I experience on a daily basis. It was another culture, another time in history, and different beliefs. I clicked on the play button for the show, and my attention was engrossed in the story line that was unfolding.

A prince had made a friend in the palace. This friend had been challenged for several days with certain duties she had to perform. They show her running around hectic and, pushing through all the demands she had. The prince noticed she had not been eating because of her taxing obligations. He took it upon himself to make sure that she had food to eat. Several scenes show him appearing at different times just to give her food. One time she only got a single bite to eat but it helped her at that one moment.

I started thinking how nice. That is very thoughtful that in a busy week someone stops to make sure that their was food available. That nourishment is vital to being able to replenish the energy needed to continue with the task at hand. I started thinking how a prince helping me like that would be wonderful with some of my obligations.

That it when it hit me immediately. I don’t have a prince feeding me, I have a king.

John 6:35

And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.

My king makes sure that when the world’s thoughts, and motives are surrounding me on a hectic day, He is their with a morsel of truth. I am running between appointments but a bible verse shows up that feeds me for the hour. I have several phone calls to make and a song comes on that helps me worship my God for one minute. I am trying to focus on task at hand and develop plans and, a person reminds me that God is there. I am weary after a long day and the Lord makes sure that my devotion shows me that He sees my weariness.

My king shows up day and night to make sure that I am feed.

It was not always like that. When I thought it was my kingdom and I ruled. I had to do it alone. No one was there to give me the smallest morsel of food or encouragement. I had to find it on my own.

I then acknowledge Jesus as the ruler of this kingdom and since then He reaches out in personal ways to make sure that I know He is watching and He cares. I never know when He will show up next, or how He will show up, but this I know. He has showed up so many days and, hours already that I do not doubt His love for me. Even when I do doubt His love at an especially difficult time, my king shows up then also.

How special that makes me feel, and how cherished I feel from that acknowledgement. God’s word is truth and, His promises are real. Some have not seen how our King really serves us. They think that cannot be true. I have to do it all on my own. Our king could not love me like that because of my faults.

The Lord does not love us for faults or perfection. He loves us just because we are part of his kingdom. He loves us because a great King would love those who He rules. A great King would make sure his subjects are not without support.

I went back to my show. I did not think that the woman had a better deal than me. I knew that my king and, the kingdom that I was in was far better and had so many possibilities. I could only pray that she would know that kingdom one day if she does not already. May you know what our kingdom is really like and the King that we really serve!

Matthew 6:11

Give us this day our daily bread.

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Me:  How is the water?

Prodigal:  It is lukewarm.

Me:  That might be good for swimming but the Lord does not like that.

This is from the book Crazy Love by Francis Chan

LUKEWARM PEOPLE attend church fairly regularly.  It is what is expected of them, what they believe “good Christians” do, so they go.

“The Lord says:  “These people come near to me with their mouth and honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.  Their worship of me is made up only of rules taught by men” (Isa. 29:13)

LUKEWARM  PEOPLE give money to charity and to the church….as long as it doesn’t impinge on their standard of living.  If they have a little extra and it is easy and safe to give, they do so.  After all, God loves a cheerful giver, right?

“King David replied to Araunah, ‘No, I insist on paying the full price.  I will not take for the Lord what is yours, or sacrifice a burnt offering that costs me nothing” (1 Chron. 21:24).

“As he looked up, Jesus saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury.  He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins.  ‘ I tell you the truth, ‘ he said, ‘this poor widow has put in more than all the others.  All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on” (Luke 21:1-4)

LUKEWARM PEOPLE tend to choose what is popular over what is right when they are in conflict.  They desire to fit in both at church and outside of church; they care more about what people think of their actions (like church attendance and giving) than what God thinks of their hearts and lives.

“Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for that is how their fathers treated the false prophets” (Luke 6:26)

“I know your deeds; you have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead” (Rev. 3:1)

“Everything they do is done for men to see:  They make their phylacteries wide and the tassels on their garments long; they love the place of honor at banquets and the most important seats in the synagogues; they love to be greeted in the marketplaces and to have men call them “Rabbi” (Matt. 23:5-7)

For, brethren, you have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another.

Galatians 5:13

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Prodigal: The Lord has blessed me!

Me: Me too!

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Proverbs 3:9

Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops;

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodgialpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

 

 

Me:  Look at those branches!

Prodigal:  I know, they are seem to be growing together.

Me:  Yes, they do, someone has taken care of that tree.

 

This is from the book  Longing for More of Jesus:  My Heart’s Cry by Anne Graham Lotz

 

Fruit is only borne in abundance on tender, fairly new growth.  As the wood of a branch gets older, it tends to get harder.  So even though a branch is living and is connected to the vine, it can become barren.  Still leaving the branch connected to the vine, the gardener cuts back the old, hard wood, forcing it into new growth that will produce fruit instead of just more wood and leaves.  In fact, there are times when he cuts branch back so drastically all that is left of it is the connection to the vine.

Jesus described this drastic pruning in a believer’s life when He explained that the Gardener “cuts off every branch in me that bears o fruit” (15:2).  There are times when God cuts everything out of our lives except our relationship with Jesus.  He forces us to pay attention to our relationship with Him because that’s all we have.  And in the process, our “connection” to the Vine is enlarged and fruit is produced.

 

We may be a little fruity, but God planned that to be a good thing!

 

And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.  Jeremiah 3:15

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Prodigal:  You are talking a lot about yourself today.

Me:  Maybe I should not focus so much on myself.

Prodigal:  You do not want to become prideful.

This is from the book A Man of Grace and Grit:  Paul by Charles Swindoll

We love to promote and independent spirit without ever considering the value of time-forged character.  God never promotes like that.  God takes His time.  When God plans to use us, He puts us through the paces.  He allows a certain amount of suffering.  God may use the strong, stubborn, independent individualists in the world , but not long-term.  He much prefers the humble, the broken, the bruised, the humble, even the crushed.  He works more effectively in the lives of people who’ve learned they can’t make it on their own, especially those who acknowledge they desperately need God and others.  

Keep yourself small.  Keep yourself as the one who needs Christ the most.  You quickly turn to pride and can quickly make decisions without Christ.  So remain as one who is desperately dependent on God.

For all the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us.

2 Corinthians 1:20

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org